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Objections aren’t your enemy

In negotiation, the word “objection” often gets misunderstood.

People treat it like resistance.
Rejection.
A wall.

But that’s not what objections are.

I wrote a short LinkedIn post on objections and was surprised at the high number of positive DMs I received about the post. So, I thought it may be helpful to expand on this and share the mindset and method I use when pushback shows up at the table.

Whether it’s pricing, timelines, risk, control, or team conversation. How you respond can change the entire outcome

The real message inside objections

An objection isn’t always about the words being said.
It’s often about what’s beneath them.

That pushback? It could be:

• A fear that hasn’t been addressed

• A pressure they’re under but haven’t named

• A test to see if you’ll fold, reframe, or hold your ground

And if you treat that objection like a barrier instead of a signal, you miss the chance to reshape the conversation.

Here’s how to turn objections into leverage

1. Don’t react to the tone, listen for the truth

When someone says, “That’s not acceptable,” it’s easy to get defensive.

But strong delivery doesn’t always mean strong resistance.
Sometimes it just means they’re under pressure.

What matters is what’s underneath the tone.

Slow down. Hear the message behind the words.
That’s where the leverage lives.

2. Label what you’re hearing

Say what they’re feeling, before they do.

Examples:

• “Sounds like timing is the real pressure here.”

• “Seems like there’s internal risk you need to manage.”

Labelling disarms the emotional heat and pulls the real concern into the open.

3. Ask calibrated questions

Instead of reacting, explore.
Use neutral, open-ended prompts like:

• “What would need to happen for that to be workable?”

• “How flexible is that on your side?”

• “What’s driving the concern around that?”

These shift the dynamic from standoff to problem solving.

4. Reframe the pushback

Objections are a chance to anchor differently, not back down.

Example:

If they say “That’s too expensive,”
Instead of defending the price, you might say:

Now you’re shaping the frame, not stuck inside theirs

As skilled negotiators we don’t dodge objections. We wait for them.

Most people react defensively when challenged.

A skilled negotiator does the opposite:

• We slow down

• Read the message under the message

• And respond like we’ve been waiting for the objection, because it reveals what truly matters

So the next time someone pushes back, don’t rush to overcome it.

Use it.

Because the pushback? That’s where your leverage lives.

See you in the next issue.

Scott

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